If someone you know is a problem gambler, use a simple and straightforward approach to show him or her your concern.

The following messages may help you find the right words to use to communicate your concern:

• Tell the person that you care about him or her and that you feel concerned about the way you see him or her acting.
• Tell the person exactly what he or she has done that concerns you.
• After telling the person that you care, what you've seen and how you feel, listen to what he or she says.
• Tell the person that you would like to see him or her seek help and talk to someone about his or her gambling problem.

If you think that you or someone you care about might have a gambling problem, call the California Problem Gambling Help Line: